Friday, May 5, 2017

week 26: words in retrospect

well this happened a little over a year ago, but during lunch at school Kirsten and Miranda were arguing about something. I think it was honestly about how she wouldn't leave Trent alone. then Miranda came over to me and asked me if I had a problem with her. I said no because we were in softball together at the time and I didn't want any drama, when actually I should've just told her that I did have a problem with her. She was always telling people on the team that I was talking about her at school. I never talked bad about her. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to take the time out of my day to talk about her when I had better things to do. Then one day at practice she had this big group talk because she felt like everyone was being rude to her and that I was causing a problem for her when it was her senior year of softball. which once again I didn't say anything about her. I just wish that I had the guts to tell people that I honestly dont give a crap what they think I said or what I do on my free time, because its not anyone's business but mine and whoever is there. I just wish people would mind there own business. ugh thanks for making me actually write a long blog. 3
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6 comments:

  1. ShaniaMay 12, 2017 at 12:57 PM

    I feel like I remember a situation like this happening. But I feel like that's what many people do to avoid direct conflict and to end situations faster. I know I do. But sometimes it prolongs.

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  2. a_disney_villianMay 12, 2017 at 12:59 PM

    I can't handle things like that. I finally blew up on someone I really care about just because I didn't have the emotional capacity to deal with extra drama and it got them to shut up, so as long as you handle it well, it can work out perfectly fine.

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  3. Kirsten MalecMay 12, 2017 at 2:57 PM

    I was so upset with you! I was like wow, she left me hanging haha

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  4. taylorMay 12, 2017 at 8:51 PM

    I remember this so clearly! It was basically what our entire softball season was about with all of those tlaks she had and all of the situations.

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  5. Evan Michael JohnsonMay 13, 2017 at 8:32 AM

    I don't see why there needed to be a huge intervention at a practice, that's strange.

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  6. timothyMay 13, 2017 at 10:20 AM

    You need to publish some more blog bro

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